I crave to be independent in my life, not in the way I don’t need anybody; I do. I need people who I can coexist with; be loved and in love. It’s a joy and a pleasure to share your life with others and enrich eachothers lives with experience and the uplifting feeling of working together to have a comfortable happy life. That is what I want; the meaning of independence for me is to have freedom and control of your life; the feeling of being able to roam the land and be alone when you want and need to. I desire for my little family to be self sufficient as a unit and be involved with the community.
I just want us to have our own house where we can garden where we please and decorate to our hearts content, we just want a place to make our own and call it our little family home, even if it’s a caravan or a cottage, be what it will. This world is expensive and complicated.
"Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t destroy yourself for the sake of someone else. You have to make your wellbeing a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone you care about, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful — you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself."